we-go-right-together-but-wrong-differently

# We go right together but wrong differently We all know how to go right together, but we go wrong in very different ways. Health is convergent and recognisable across cultures and families; pathology is divergent and idiosyncratic (Tolstoy's line about families generalises). Practical consequence: building on the shared image of going-right unites, while leading with diagnosis of wrongness fragments. Related: [[relationships-stack-and-cohere]], [[social-change-fails-when-it-cannot-use-the-truth-of-its-enemies]]