fitness-for-relationship-is-complexity-of-connection

# Fitness for relationship is complexity of connection Our fitness to be in relationship correlates with the complexity of our ways of connecting. A chemical can bond in few ways, a human in many, and holding diverse, resilient relationships is an evolutionary advantage. Societies mark some ways of connecting taboo, and the standing question is whether those rules still serve or now stand in the way of love. Love, not society, is the arbiter, since love is what expands the ways of relating and so the power of being. Related: [[relationships-stack-and-cohere]], [[communion-is-harmony-not-unison]]